For ten and a half years of my life, I lived happily as an only child. Many times, kids will ask their parents, “Can I have a little brother or sister?” Well, not me. I was perfectly content with our little family, aside from the constant begging for a dog, which I did eventually get (shoutout to Santa Claus). Two months later, and much to my dismay, I found out another addition would be made to our family, and that I was going to be a big sister. I’m kind of embarrassed to say that I cried in the middle of the restaurant when our parents told me the news about you, but I did. Now, seven years later, I am so proud to be your big sister.

You crack me up every day and push me to be a better person because I want to be someone you can look up to. That being said, I won’t always be around after this year, and I want to share some pieces of advice for you to remember as you grow up and experience new things.

1.) Don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself. You’re going to mess up and embarrass yourself sometimes, so you might as well laugh at yourself along the way! Oh, and also remember that the braces don’t stay on forever, and the awkward phase will end (I’m still working through mine, to be honest).

2.) Don’t compare your failures to others’ successes. Nothing good ever comes out of comparing yourself to others. Enough said.

3.) Always leave someone happier than they were before being with you.

4.) Surround yourself with people who make you a better person.

5.) Don’t sweat the small stuff.

6.) Always make time for family (especially me).

7.) Stay true to yourself. Embrace your flaws and learn to love yourself. There’s no one out there like you, so why would you want to change?

I love you Jill, and I wish I could be around more while you grow up. I’m going to miss you so much while at college, and no matter what you do, I’ll always be proud to be your big sister.

Love,

Jackie

Jackie Brock

Opinion Writer